Image: During Chanukah 2015, the Intro class lit chanukiot together. This year I forgot to take pictures.
My house sits in a mostly Christian neighborhood, surrounded by bright Christmas decorations. I love my neighbors’ lights, and look forward to them every year. My house, though, is different: there are no Christmas decorations, only a little electric chanukiah winking in the window by the front door.
Every Chanukah I rededicate my home to be a mikdash me-at, a little sanctuary of the God of Israel.
- Is it safe for visitors? Well-lit outside?
- Is it safe for all: how do we speak to and treat each other here?
- Does it look like a Jewish home? Are there things that shouldn’t be here?
- Are people who work here compensated fairly?
- Do I practice hacnasat orchim, hospitality to guests?
- What can I do to make it more of a place of Torah?
Last night I had twelve students over for Shabbat dinner. It was a big celebration for me.
When I got sick last year, I cancelled such a gathering because I didn’t have the strength to do it. Since then, the thought of cleaning and cooking, then cleaning again was completely overwhelming. But two weeks ago a student asked me shyly: “Could I come see how you do Shabbat dinner sometime?” I said, “Sure!” and emailed the class.
I have rededicated my home, and my self, to hospitality. As with last night, it will need to be modest: potlucks, instead of me cooking everything. I asked for and got help with set up and clean up. Even with all the delegation, I was a mess today – but a happy mess, because the mitzvah of hospitality is dear to my heart.
As I told my guests, I hope that every one of them hosts a Shabbat dinner for friends or family sometime soon. I pointed out my less-than-stellar housekeeping and said, “If I can have people over when things are not perfect, you can too.” Hachnasat orchim (hospitality to guests) is an important way to build Jewish community, one relationship at a time.
To whom or what are you rededicating yourself this week? Chanukah is about memory, but it is also about dedicating ourselves in the here and now, meeting the challenges of being Jewish in the world.